Find out how healthy your friendship is

Meghna Mukherjee| Jan 16, 2017
Take this quiz to know your friendship score…
I need to know what my friend is doing when we’re not hanging out.
a. True
b. False
When my friend and I fight, I keep thinking about what happened all over again.
a. True
b. False
I can only see myself being best friends with one person.
a. True
b. False
If I had a party and my best friend couldn’t come, I would still have fun with the other people.
a. True
b. False
If I called my best friend and found out that they couldn’t talk because another friend was over, I would feel jealous.
a. True
b. False
I sometimes follow my friend to find out what they’re doing.
a. True
b. False
I am scared that my best friend is becoming friends with someone else.
a. True
b. False
I call my friend unexpectedly to check if they’re home or with someone else.
a. True
b. False
0-2 points = An unhealthy friendship
You often feel worried about other people coming between you. You might feel like your friend is not being loyal to you or that you have been betrayed. Whatever the case may be, feelings of jealousy can create even more distance between you and your friend. That’s why it’s important to work on them so that you can develop a more healthy friendship!
3-5 points = Somewhere in-between a healthy and unhealthy friendship
You sometimes feel worried about other people coming between you, but not always. Sometimes you worry that your friend won’t be there for you, or that they will move on to another friend. These feelings are pretty common, but it’s important to deal with them so they don’t bring you down.
6-8 points = A healthy friendship
You enjoy spending time with your friend and are not worried about other people coming between you. You understand that you have a strong friendship, but that you can both have fun with other friends too.